src: skip inspector wait in internal workers

Internal workers are essential to load user scripts and bootstrapped
with internal entrypoints. They should not be waiting for inspectors
even when `--inspect-brk` and `--inspect-wait` were specified, and avoid
blocking main thread to bootstrap.

IsolateData can be created with a specified PerIsolateOptions instead of
creating a copy from the per_process namespace. This also avoids
creating a copy bypassing the parent env's modified options, like
creating a worker thread from a worker thread.

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/54219
Fixes: https://github.com/nodejs/node/issues/53681
Reviewed-By: Yagiz Nizipli <yagiz@nizipli.com>
Reviewed-By: Benjamin Gruenbaum <benjamingr@gmail.com>

test/common/inspector-helper.js

@@ -309,6 +309,10 @@ class InspectorSession {
       return notification.method === 'Runtime.executionContextDestroyed' &&
         notification.params.executionContextId === 1;
     });
+    await this.waitForDisconnect();
+  }
+
+  async waitForDisconnect() {
     while ((await this._instance.nextStderrString()) !==
               'Waiting for the debugger to disconnect...');
     await this.disconnect();