lib: add UV_UDP_REUSEPORT for udp

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/55403
Refs: https://github.com/libuv/libuv/pull/4419
Reviewed-By: Matteo Collina <matteo.collina@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>

test/common/udp.js

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+'use strict';
+const dgram = require('dgram');
+
+const options = { type: 'udp4', reusePort: true };
+
+function checkSupportReusePort() {
+  return new Promise((resolve, reject) => {
+    const socket = dgram.createSocket(options);
+    socket.bind(0);
+    socket.on('listening', () => {
+      socket.close(resolve);
+    });
+    socket.on('error', (err) => {
+      console.log('The `reusePort` option is not supported:', err.message);
+      socket.close();
+      reject(err);
+    });
+  });
+}
+
+module.exports = {
+  checkSupportReusePort,
+  options,
+};